Dealing with Difficult People Hypnosis MP3 Downloads

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We all know people we would describe as 'difficult'. Difficult people can range from the mildly irritating to the totally impossible-to-deal-with. Our Dealing with Difficult People section is designed to give you new strategies and skills to make handling those tricky types easier, and to reduce their impact on your life.

Stay Calm with THAT Person!

Is there someone who just seems to push your buttons? Someone who, despite your best efforts, is able to unsettle or upset you?

If you have to deal with them on a regular basis, it can make life pretty difficult. Even the thought of them can make your stomach turn somersaults.

But when we think about it, the real problem is not the person, it’s our own emotional response to them. Somehow they have managed to create unpleasant feelings of anxiety that leave you unable to be assertive or even feel comfortable around them.

Let’s face facts – if you could ignore them completely, there wouldn’t be a problem!

Get rid of those unpleasant feelings

Staying calm with THAT person will help you get rid of the unpleasant habitual emotional response and enable you to feel resourceful and capable around that person.

By using this advanced hypnosis session, you will be able to maintain your composure with someone who you have been trying to avoid, or someone who deliberately sets out to unsettle you.

You will be surprised the next time you see them, or hear from them, that your old ‘push button’ response is no longer there and in its place is calm, reassuring confidence.

Download ‘Staying calm with THAT person’ today using the buttons below and you will notice how much better you feel about them before the day is out!



 

Learn the secret of dealing with negative critics

Negative critics bring you down. Always picking at you, chipping away at your confidence, complaining about something or other. Being on the receiving end of someone's negative carping, especially if it's directed to you is demoralizing and downright depressing.

The worst thing is when you begin to believe or 'swallow' the messages of the negative critic because then your self-confidence and self-esteem being to suffer.

When you download this session you'll discover why criticism mirrors how depressed people think (which is why they are so depressing to receive) and also why they are never true or realistic.

Become immune to negative criticism

Once you start to see through the overblown and emotive statements of negative criticism you'll begin to become immune to them. You don't have to take criticism on board. If someone gives you bitter tasting chewing gum it doesn't mean you have to chew it! If someone criticizes you then you can chew it briefly, and then spit it out!

Being criticized is an emotional experience and can make you anxious and/or angry. The more emotional you become the harder it becomes to think clearly or to defend yourself.

Hold your own against negative critics

'The Secret of Dealing with the Negative Critic' will get you feeling calm and in touch with your logical brain during times of criticism.

It will also give you real strategies to hold your own against the critic.
Download 'The Secret of Dealing with the Negative Critic' now and start feeling better about yourself.

Learn the secret of dealing with the angry bully

Having to deal with an angry bully on an ongoing basis can make you life hell. In fact the impact from regular contact with just one angry bully in your life can spread out and start to diminish the quality of your whole life!

Angry bullies shout and scream without giving you a chance to explain or justify yourself and use humiliation and fear as weapons to manipulate you.

How bullies work

When a bully knows what is important to you they know how to manipulate you. If your work is important to you they'll attack your work efforts. If being sociable is important they attempt to isolate you. If progressing up the career ladder is important to you they'll seek to block your advancement.

Bullies can be very perceptive when seeing what is important to different people because they use that information as weaponry.

Bullies routinely disrupt work and personal relationships and are continually undermining and disrespectful. They may think their aggressive 'leadership' is motivating but low morale means low productivity.

Too much self esteem, not too little!

Contrary to popular opinion the latest research suggest that aggressive bullies are not like this because they feel badly about themselves or have low self-esteem - in fact they are more likely to have unrealistically inflated high self-esteem so don't be tempted to feel sorry for them!

Bullies come in many guises. Some just don't listen to you, others have to have the last word all the time or constantly fail to do what they said they would. Some make you feel like you have got to watch your back because of what they might be saying about you to others. Often they'll criticize anything you say or do just because it came from you! Aggressive bullies compete for status and the spotlight and will want to make themselves look good by making you look bad.

Why advice alone won't work

All the best advice in the world will fall away when you are under attack from a bully.

When a bully shouts at you and displays open hostility it becomes harder to think and defend yourself. The more emotional they make you the more your thinking brain shuts down. Angry bullies specialize in raising the emotional temperature so that you can't think.

How to stay calm when under attack

Happily, there are ways to deal with angry bullies which will make your life so much easier. 'The Secret of Dealing with an Angry Bully' session will hypnotically prepare your mind to remain calm and detached so that your emotional state is no longer manipulated by that bully. Hypnosis can enable you to remain calm naturally when the bully starts throwing their toys out of their pram.

Download 'The Secret of Dealing with an Angry Bully' now and replenish your self esteem and confidence.

Learn how to deal with the two-faced, backstabbing gossip!

Do you know someone who says one thing to your face, and then another behind your back? And then comes and tells you the latest spiteful gossip about someone else?

At first you can't believe it - they seemed so nice - you thought they were a friend but in fact their behavior is poisonous.

"So and so's been saying this about you"

A common tactic of the gossipy two-face is to 'false-team': "Some people have been saying, a few people have been talking about you and saying..." But when it comes to giving you names or even exactly what is being said they clam up! Nothing is out in the open and all they've succeeded in doing is make you feel insecure and paranoid. They may do this as entertainment or because they are envious of others. Whatever the reason, dealing with them can be awful.

Two faced gossips often operate by first getting your trust, perhaps by using charm or by telling you a small piece of personal information about themselves. You then tell them something about yourself in return which is later used against you. Two-faced gossips have to be dealt with before their behavior rots the trust and efficiency of whole organizations or social groups.

Two faced gossiping and back stabbing can be likened to guerrilla warfare; the sniper shoots from the trees so you can't properly defend yourself. When you force them out into the open and confront them openly they go on the defensive.

Download 'The secret of dealing with the gossipy two-face' now and learn how to deal with this most unpleasant of difficult people.

Make your life straight forward today.

Learn the secret of dealing with the relationship control freak

Control freaks can make relationships very difficult indeed. Especially if the control freak in your life happens to be your life partner. Over-possessiveness is stifling and suffocating. Does your relationship sometimes feel more like a dictatorship!?

Possessive control freaks do anything to get their own way, including manipulation and even outright bullying.

They feel they have to dictate every aspect of a project and if you are their 'project' then you can have a real sense that they are stealing your autonomy and independence. Their possessiveness can drive you crazy!

Control freaks are uncomfortable even acknowledging that other people have a point of view!

Your partner may be attractive and know how to be charming when it suits but if they are over-controlling then something needs to be done for your sake. Control freaks will often:

Try to control every aspect of your life

Dictate what you and your friends should do

Hate you going out or doing anything without them

Seem threatened by any opinions that don't full in line with what they think

Feel threatened by areas of your life that don't directly concern them and may criticize things they don't even know about

Always assume they know what's best for you regardless of your point of view and give advice whether you asked for it or not

Resent other people in your life who seem to exert influence over you in some way such as your boss, or good friends or even family members. They may constantly criticize or even try to keep you away from such people.

Check up on you to see what you are up to. They may even go through your phone numbers or interrogate friends, colleagues as to your whereabouts

We all have a basic need of for a sense of control but the control freak has a need that is out of control! They may tell you their controlling possessive ways are signs of 'true love' but that's part of the control.

If your relationship is more like a dictatorship then you need to do something to stop being bulldozed and get your self-respect back.

Download the 'Secret of Dealing with the Relationship Control Freak' and get some balance back into your relationship

The Secret of dealing with The Guilt Tripper

How is it that 'guilt trippers' know exactly which buttons to press? Some people are just adept at emotional manipulation, and if you find yourself on the receiving end, you need to have your defences ready.

Why guilt works

You can be controlled through guilt because you're basically a decent person. If you didn't have a conscience then there would be no guilt to use against you. In addition, it's likely that you have been conditioned in the past to feel guilty and unrealistically responsible for someone else's emotions and actions.

Maybe other people made you feel overly responsible: 'You made me do this!', or 'After all I've done for you, how could you treat me like this?' and 'Oh ok I'll do it even though I am not feeling well' and so on.

Guilt trippers play the martyr, constantly remind you what they have done for you and know exactly how to make you feel bad so they can get what they want.

Why using guilt is bullying

And make no mistake, although this manipulative behavior may not seem aggressive, it is. The emotional blackmail of the guilt tripper is still a way of gaining control over you. Even though they are not shouting and threatening it is still behavior designed to dominate you. That's why it's bullying.

When people manipulate by making you feel guilty (even if it is by giving you a certain look) then they entrap you within their own agenda - you become merely an instrument to get them what they want. They are in fact treating you as an object; a means to an end.

Guilt trippers will try to make you feel responsible for what they do and feel. This immature tactic subsumes all responsibility. Ultimately, of course, what they do and feel is down to them.

The language of guilt

The guilt tripper will use accusatory language with black or white statements such as: 'You always do this to me!' or 'Why don't you ever help me?' and 'How could you just go off and enjoy yourself when you know I've got all this to do?'

They will talk about things 'not being fair' and compare your behavior with other people to the way they feel you treat them. For example: 'How come it's ok for you to help them but not me?' or 'Why is it that you listen to everyone else's ideas but not mine?'

The guilt tripper will exaggerate your role in things and over blame you. This amounts to threatening behavior. They may say stuff like: 'If we lose this contract it will be all your fault!', or 'I hope you are satisfied now you've ruined my entire life!'

Drama queens

Guilt trippers are drama queens and talk dramatically. The most immature and dramatic sentiment expressed is the: 'You'll be sorry when I'm gone!' or 'When I'm dead and buried at least you want have to worry about me any more!'

It's one thing have a guilt tripper in your life but it's another to have your behavior and emotions controlled by them.

Guilt trippers are all 'me, me, me!' Guilt tripping is selfish behavior and you may have noticed that any non-selfish behavior is then used for their own gain, never letting you forget what they've done or suffered for others.

Guilt trippers may have real hardships but then they use these to manipulate others. We may find ourselves making excuses for them such as: 'Well Sally did have that divorce and she has got that ill child'. However is 'Sally' using these things to control you? If she is then her behavior still needs dealing with, despite any real difficulties in her life.

Freedom from the guilt tripper's manipulations

Just think how much easier your life is going to be when you are no longer manipulated into feeling and doing what you don't really want. No longer being controlled though emotional blackmail doesn't mean you always have to say no but it does mean you'll make decisions based on logic, not enforced guilt trips. Your decisions need to be made for the right reasons.

Download The secret of dealing with the guilt tripper now and give them a chance to grow up and yourself a chance to enjoy your life more.

The secret of dealing with The Moody Type

You know how it is. Their moods change like the weather. You never know how they are going to be from one day to the next. One day they're fine and the next they bite your head off and you never know why. Moody people, especially when they're work colleagues, make life much harder than it needs to be.

Why moodiness works

When something is scarce or rare it's human to value it more highly. You might have found yourself feeling pathetically grateful for those rare shards of good mood and proper professionalism that come your way.

Moody people may be that way because their needs in life aren't being met. Who knows? Maybe they don't feel appreciated or loved, or they never have enough sleep or they drink too much coffee ? That's not your problem - it's theirs.

Emotional blackmail

When people are moody they become unpredictable and something that is unpredictable keeps you guessing all the time. This means you have to work twice as hard - you have to do your work and you have to work at handling them. They may use their moods as a way of wielding power and control. Sometimes they'll give the impression that you may have done something wrong without actually coming out with anything directly. This can make you feel somehow responsible for something but you are not quite sure what. This is emotional blackmail.

If their moods are like constantly changing weather conditions then you need to become weatherproof and stopped being battered and blown all over the place. Your responses, emotions and actions need to be constant, calm and reliable when you deal with them. When you are different with them you will begin to influence the way they behave. People ultimately only act up with people when they feel they can get away with it and it will gain them some advantage - once these two factors lessen their behavior has a chance to improve.

Let their moods just sail by

Imagine feeling detached and 'resistant' to whatever mood your moody person displays. Imagine mentally handing back all responsibility to them for the way that they act - freeing up your own energy for more important considerations.

Download The secret of dealing with the moody person now and start to emotionally manage yourself and the moody person.

The secret of drawing out shy people

Although shyness is not often classed as 'difficult' behavior, shyness can make people hard to communicate with.

Dealing with shy people differs from many of the other difficult behaviors in the Dealing with Difficult People section. However, as with all 'difficult behavior' when you start to deal with it effectively you indirectly help the difficult person.

Shyness doesn't just cause problems for the sufferer

Shyness can present problems not just for the shyness sufferer. Shy people can be hard to deal with. The more you 'push' the more they go into their shell.

You might feel you are doing all the talking or asking them questions then, when they are unforthcoming, answering them yourself. Shy people can seem rude, snobbish and stand-offish. You need to see beyond this for their sake and yours.

It's easy to become frustrated with shy people especially if you feel their shyness hampers work and social situations.

Behind the seeming aloofness often lies somebody who desperately wants to 'join in' but doesn't know how. It's easy for a shy person to feel invisible or, because they aren't socially dominant to ignore what they say.

Shy people often have so much to offer maybe because they are so sensitive and thoughtful. Underneath they may be very funny or kind and considerate.

You need to be patient and calm and also know some of the tools to really help quickly build confidence in the shy person.

This session will help you deal effectively with shy people so that you start feeling relaxed with them your self and also become better at making them feel comfortable enough to speak and express themselves freely.

Download The secret of drawing our shy people now and make life easier for everyone.

The secret of dealing with the know it all

Being a 'know-it-all' is a form of bullying even if that is not the intention.

The know-it-all has an opinion on everything regardless of whether they actually know anything about the subject or not. You know the type: something is self-evidently true purely because they happen to think it.

Know-it-alls are bombastic, opinionated and bad at listening.

What the know-it-all lacks is the humility to say: "I do not know enough about this to form a proper opinion", or "You may be right because you have more experience in this area than I do".

Set on transmit not receive

Know-it-alls are on set on 'transmit' most of the time. They are not up for receiving input from others. They want to be the ones giving out, transmitting their pearls of 'wisdom'.

What they don't know isn't worth knowing and when they do learn something well… according to them, they knew it already.

The know-it-all may be a highly intelligent person but their know-it-all attitude makes them narrow minded and less and less able to learn as the years roll by.

Putting you down without meaning to?

The obvious solution seems to be to avoid the know it all as they have a great way of putting other people down by implication. In other words if they know everything then you know nothing. Or anything you do know you know because of them. That's the way they can make you feel.

Bad for self-esteem

The know-it-all can damage your self-esteem because there is something compelling about certainty. The trouble is they can feel hard to deal with especially if they happen to be your boss or the person you live with.

Being a know-it-all is a form of greed. Wanting to take all credit and direct all things at all times regardless of other people is like someone grabbing all the food at the table.

The know-it-all may take on board other peoples' ideas but then claim them as their own or say that 'everyone knew that any way.' They are in fact greedy over ownership of knowledge.

Your 'How to Deal with the Know It All' hypnosis download will give you both tips and strategies and prime your unconscious mind to respond constructively to the know-it-all.

Remember it's not down to you to change the know-it-all, just to deal with them in ways which are more constructive and cause less conflict. You need to be able to remain calm and objective and remember that they do not know everything and that you, yourself, can contribute.

Download How to Deal with the Know it All now and enjoy your next interaction with them.

Develop advanced verbal self-defense skills

Have you noticed some people tie you up in knots by what they say to you - and the way they say it?

Do you ever feel helpless and angry that you can't make your point in these situations?

If you often feel verbally assaulted then some verbal self defense skills will reverse those situations for good.

Words can be used as weapons

You may know someone who uses the machine gun technique - asking you question after question without giving you a chance to answer. Or maybe you are subjected to someone who makes snide sarcastic jokes at your expense. Perhaps they are 'good with words' and make you feel verbally clumsy or inept.

Learn verbal self defense skills and astonish your attacker

Verbal self defense isn't about becoming angry, shouting or being aggressive. There are a few simple rules to verbal self defense that will allow you to defend yourself with dignity. Verbal Self Defense will teach you these key rules and train your brain to stay relaxed in those tricky situations, ensuring you can respond and not freeze or clam up.

This is essential, because it's easy to know what you should say during times of verbal assault but it's another thing having the presence of mind to defend yourself verbally.

Develop Verbal Self Defense will increase your confidence and get you feeling more relaxed and better about yourself generally.

Download Develop Verbal Self-Defense now and watch the bullies just fade into the background.